Infidelity or un-trustworthy-ness is lethal relationship problem. A moment of uncontrolled, misdirected desire can blow away the trust, love and emotions that had taken decades to build up. Infidelity affects health, irrespective of the other partner knows about it or not. Even if the secret is held in the minds, overall health of the person starts deteriorating.
What is infidelity?
- Not being loyal to the spouse.
- Double timing when in a pre-marriage committed relationship.
What is not infidelity?
- A widow / widower seeking new relationship.
- Seeing someone else, after breakup.
Ill effects of infidelity on mind –
- Every time you are forced to cook up lies,
- Mind is always facing fight or flight scenario
- Mind working extra time to cook up lies and finding explanations to give, to spouse and whoever smells suspicion
- Tremendous stress.
- Fear, nervousness, anxiety, depression, confusion
- Though you may feel to be healthy and happy, the effects of stress start getting exhibited on your body.
- Laziness
- Suspicion of betrayal and breakup
- Financial woes adding on stress
Physical problems –
- Stress leading to early onset of High BP, Diabetes, heart problems.
- Weakness, feeling tired all the time
- Higher risk of incidence of sexually transmitted diseases like AIDS, Gonorrhea, Syphilis etc.
- Premature ejaculation, Erectile dysfunction, Loss of Libido
- Menstrual irregularities in woman
Social problems –
- Risk of family breaking down into pieces
- Financial instability
- Risk of losing name and fame in the society
- Risk of losing happiness in your life, forever.
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