Feeling guilty about sexual thoughts and all the aspects related to sex is a common phenomena in teenage. But if you nurture this guilty feeling, it leads to depleted confidence, lack of interest in studies / work. It totally complicates your life.
I Feel Guilty About Sex – Explanation:
We are human beings, we have been given a body by nature, with sexual organs with it. Breeding is a natural survival phenomena for any living creature. Animals also show sexual behavior at particular seasons at particular age. So do we.
But animals do not have wisdom or ethics. But we, living in a society do have ethics and an analytical mind set to control these sex thoughts to our advantage.
After onset of puberty, new set of hormones called sex hormones are produced. They bring about changes in the body such as
- facial hair, pubic hair, hardening of voice in men
- development of breasts, pubic hair in women.
- To attract the opposite sex
- To help in conception and pregnancy.
- I did not have any such thoughts before
- I do not know if everyone gets such thoughts
- I am not sure if everyone gets it.
- I may get some serious sexual disease due to it.
- Get to know the reality about masturbation. Read my previous articles about masturbation
- Get to know that what you are going through is a normal process and everything is all right.
- Seek your family member’s parent’s advice.
- Read self help books and spiritual books to get the courage to get rid of this guilty feeling.
- Concentrate hard on your studies, excel in your profession.
- Develop hobbies, improve your personality and confidence.
- Consult a doctor for better understanding about the physiology of sex.